erotic
kissing
More than a week later, I can still see the faint mark just above my left nipple where he sucked my breast with such intense passion. I look at it each day in the mirror, run my finger over that spot and feel a rush of pleasure flow through my body remembering our time together.…
Read Morefull moon feeling
Friday night full moons can feel a certain way. With this one I felt an expectation of myself to be wild, maybe I’d even embody my sexy goddess self fully. Sometimes life doesn’t go the way we plan. I found myself in tears and not feeling even remotely sexy as my evening sensual massage appointment…
Read Morejungle cat
This time my invitation to him is to find my edges and nudge them. I invite us to both be naked this time. I invite him to use his mouth on my body. I spend hours getting ready for him. I hydrate. I slowly, sensually shave my entire body in anticipation of his hands and…
Read Morepleasure practice
I had a pleasure practice long before I knew that it was called a Pleasure Practice. I learned how to give myself orgasms before I even knew what the word masturbate meant. I intuitively understood to keep this thing that I really, really enjoyed to myself and only do it in private. In the forty-something…
Read Morenaked first date
I had a really good feeling about him right away. His initial message was thoughtful. He came across as sincere, sensitive, and detail oriented. He appreciated my writing, my values, and resonated with what I was looking for. We had an easy, fluid back and forth with several long message exchanges getting to know each…
Read Moreerotic connection
Moments of magic looping together. Closeness. Care. Skin touching skin. Moving hands and bodies intertwining. Being inside an erotic connection with someone who cares about and is invested in my pleasure and my wellbeing. These are some elements of the medicine of erotic connection. Holding erotic space well must take deep mastery of the self.…
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