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When Longing Feels Like Love
Why emotional intensity, sensual connection, and longing can feel like love I’ve spent years trying to understand why certain connections affected me so deeply. But what feels more true now is this: Something was happening inside me that I didn’t understand. There were moments that felt undeniable. Touch. Presence. Being close to someone in a…
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This time my invitation to him is to find my edges and nudge them. I invite us to both be naked this time. I invite him to use his mouth on my body. I spend hours getting ready for him. I hydrate. I slowly, sensually shave my entire body in anticipation of his hands and…
Read Moresensual evening with myself
I feel joy being naked in the hot spring healing waters. Naked in silence. I’m in the company of others intending to relax and have a quiet moment. There’s an unspoken agreement to respect each other’s sovereignty, to move carefully, giving our sacred bodies a buffer of space with respect. I like slowly walking down…
Read Moreerotic connection
Moments of magic looping together. Closeness. Care. Skin touching skin. Moving hands and bodies intertwining. Being inside an erotic connection with someone who cares about and is invested in my pleasure and my wellbeing. These are some elements of the medicine of erotic connection. Holding erotic space well must take deep mastery of the self.…
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Undressing. Getting naked. Becoming naked. Being naked. My nakedness can be vulnerable, emotional, and also exhilarating. Especially when I’ve invited your gaze and asked you to witness me. I discovered a deep longing for that feeling of peeling away the layers of my clothes, removing everything that hides the intimate details of my body, and…
Read Moremy desires
He asked me to think deeply about my desires and my intention for working with him. The focus of our work is in service of me and my healing. Having the space to feel into what I desire and speak it has proven to be very powerful for me. In the past, and even now,…
Read Moresensual massage
Is it intentional when you touch your penis to my hand? Lay it in my open hand so I can feel it grow erect. I like knowing that you feel turned on by touching my naked body. I don’t know if it means anything else. It seems like a silent way to communicate that you…
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