the verge
I’ve gone to the edge of my comfort zone with him, again and again. He invited me there—and I said yes. I invited him there. I invited myself. Willingly. Softly. Sensually. Each time I opened a little more. Embraced more. Received more. Touched more. Trusted more. And in all of it, he was there. Tracking…
steering my own vessel
Dear Love, What would you have me know today? I am proud of you for finding the center of your own life and steering your ship in the direction of your own North Star. This lifetime is ultimately for you—to walk your path, bound only by the soul-deep agreements you’ve made with yourself. Abundant guidance…
decentering & centering
Over many months, I’ve been exploring the new paradigm of decentering men in my life. Even writing that sentence a part of me feels apologetic and an urge to write something reassuring to men that I love, and men in general. That’s part of the problem. I experience a pull to make sure men know…
the intimacy within
There is a kind of intimacy that isn’t about another person. It isn’t about being touched, chosen, or understood. It’s about returning home to yourself. For so long, I thought intimacy meant letting someone in. Letting them touch me, hear me, see me. Letting them love me. And maybe it still does. But lately, I’m…
kissing
More than a week later, I can still see the faint mark just above my left nipple where he sucked my breast with such intense passion. I look at it each day in the mirror, run my finger over that spot and feel a rush of pleasure flow through my body remembering our time together.…
conscious intimacy
What is conscious intimacy? What does it mean to me? What does it feel like? I want to explore deeply so I can create more of it in my life. When I think of intimacy, I long to feel comfort and at ease in my body, mind and spirit in the presence of my lover.…
full moon feeling
Friday night full moons can feel a certain way. With this one I felt an expectation of myself to be wild, maybe I’d even embody my sexy goddess self fully. Sometimes life doesn’t go the way we plan. I found myself in tears and not feeling even remotely sexy as my evening sensual massage appointment…
jungle cat
This time my invitation to him is to find my edges and nudge them. I invite us to both be naked this time. I invite him to use his mouth on my body. I spend hours getting ready for him. I hydrate. I slowly, sensually shave my entire body in anticipation of his hands and…
pleasure practice
I had a pleasure practice long before I knew that it was called a Pleasure Practice. I learned how to give myself orgasms before I even knew what the word masturbate meant. I intuitively understood to keep this thing that I really, really enjoyed to myself and only do it in private. In the forty-something…
held
I’m often overwhelmed by the desire to be held. I crave the feeling of being able to relax into an embrace and breathe into the support of another person’s warm, strong body. It has to be the right person. It must be someone who I want to be held close by. Someone who smells like…
sensual evening with myself
I feel joy being naked in the hot spring healing waters. Naked in silence. I’m in the company of others intending to relax and have a quiet moment. There’s an unspoken agreement to respect each other’s sovereignty, to move carefully, giving our sacred bodies a buffer of space with respect. I like slowly walking down…
naked first date
I had a really good feeling about him right away. His initial message was thoughtful. He came across as sincere, sensitive, and detail oriented. He appreciated my writing, my values, and resonated with what I was looking for. We had an easy, fluid back and forth with several long message exchanges getting to know each…
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